WEBAug 1, 2023 · Ponca City Now - August 4, 2023 7:44 pm. Mary Reeder. January 15, 1958 — August 1, 2023. Mary Reeder, 65, beloved Wife, Mother, and Grandmother, was called to her eternal resting place on August 1, 2023. She entered this world on January 15, 1958, in Ponca City, Oklahoma, born to Warren and Velora C. Mathews Harrington Jr.